Like many women, I was overwhelmed by all the information I received when I was young.
- “The clitoris is the main character.”
- “The G-spot is king.”
- “Vaginal orgasm is the highest level.”
But it wasn’t until I actually started exploring my body, did a lot of research, and talked to many women that I realized—
Female pleasure isn’t about one spot—it’s an interconnected “three-system network.”
The clitoris, G-spot, and vagina are not in competition, but rather in cooperation; they amplify each other and complement each other.
In this article, I want to use my own experience and the knowledge I’ve researched to help you “completely piece together” these three systems.
After reading this, you’ll understand:
- Why are some stimuli strong while others are weak?
- Why the same action can feel completely different from one woman to another.
- Why do combined stimuli produce an “upgraded pleasure”?
- And, most importantly—how to find your own most comfortable route.
Your body is actually more advanced than you think, but many people have never taught you how to unlock its full potential.
The structure and sensory differences of the three pleasure systems
If we compare a woman’s body to a high-end game console, these three areas are like three “main skill modules,” each responsible for different pleasure functions.
The more of them you activate, the richer the experience becomes.
1. Clitoris: The smallest yet fastest control panel (external)
I first truly understood the clitoris after I grew up.
Why is it that the vast majority of women are most likely to achieve orgasm through the clitoris?
Because its concentration of nerve endings is unmatched by any other part of the body.
It’s like the busiest entrance of a nightclub—one touch and everything reacts—it can ignite a reaction at the slightest touch.
2. G-spot: a deep “enhancement zone” along the anterior vaginal wall that needs to be “found”
Many girls (including me) thought it was “a button” when they first heard about the G-spot.
But I later found out:
The G-spot is actually an extension of the internal structure of the clitoris, not a separate organ.
It is located a few centimeters from the anterior wall of the vagina, and it feels a bit rough to the touch.
Its pleasure is not an “electric current sensation,” but more like being pressed on a very deep and comfortable pressure point—a bit dull, a bit full, and deeply inviting.
Many girls describe it as:
“It’s not a sharp, fast sensation, but a pleasant feeling that spreads from the inside out.”
3. Vagina: A space that provides rhythm, depth, and a uniquely internal sense of fullness.
The nerves in the vagina are unevenly distributed; not the entire passage is sensitive.
Those who are truly sensitive are usually:
- Vaginal entrance
- Anterior wall (connecting to the clitoral system)
- Specific pressure points on both sides
Its mission is not to be the “champion of neural density,” but to provide:
- Flowing rhythm
- Depth and sense of progression
- A certain sense of being enveloped that only exists from within.
When the clitoris and G-spot are activated, the rhythm of the vagina makes the whole experience complete, layered, and emotional.
How do you get all three systems to “work together”?
Single-point stimulation can lead to orgasm, but multiple points combined with stimulation…
It really will jump from the “regular edition” to the “limited collector’s edition”.
1. Fingers × Oral × Sex Toys: It’s not about choosing one, but about each having its own function.
Each type of stimulation has its own unique characteristics:
- Fingers: Dexterous and precise, they are the most powerful tool for finding the G-spot.
- Mouth: Temperature + Humidity + Rhythm = Clitoral Super Amplifier
- Toys: Stable, fatigue-free, and repeatable, especially suitable for clitoral vibration or G-spot stimulation.
The strongest combination?
One for external stimulation, one for internal.
For example:
Clitoral toys or oral sex → Internal use with hands or G-spot toys
It’s like getting hit with caffeine and fresh air at the same time—fast and intense.
2. Position determines accuracy—angle matters more than intensity.
I learned this later:
It’s not about how violently you move, but whether you move “accurately”.
- G point: Requires an angle towards the front wall
- Clitoris: Just enough to allow for easy external friction and contact.
- Vagina: A steady rhythm is more important than speed.
A slight change in angle can take the sensation from mild to overwhelming.
How do I identify my primary sensitive system?
Everyone’s body is really different.
Here’s a simple way to figure that out, based on my experience and what other women have shared, that of my readers, and that of my friends:
1. If you respond exceptionally quickly to clitoral stimulation: You are an “externally dominant” type.
Features:
- It feels great even with a light touch.
- The internal stimulation is not that strong
- Clitoral orgasms occur much faster than vaginal orgasms.
This means that your “main system” is external stimuli, while the internal system is more of a supporting rhythm.
Don’t force yourself to like internal stimulation; your body will tell you what’s best for you.
2. If you are particularly sensitive to the G-spot or internal pressure: you are a “dominantly internal type”.
Features:
- It will react to even slight internal pressure.
- Clitoral stimulation is actually not that strong.
- Pressing on the front wall is more stimulating than rubbing the outside.
For people with this constitution, internal stimuli are the main focus, while external stimuli serve as background or atmosphere.
The differences in climaxes among the three systems
Understanding the differences is important because it will affect how you combine stimuli.
1. Clitoral orgasm: fast, precise, like lightning.
It felt like a surge of electric current, strong, fast, and clear.
However, the duration is usually short.
Ideal for:
- Beginners
- Want to climax quickly
- To first “activate the body’s response” before proceeding with internal stimulation.
2. Vaginal orgasm: deep, enveloping, like slowly brewed coffee.
It requires rhythm and time, but the feedback will be a “whole-body vibration”.
the more stable the internal rhythm, the easier it is to get into the zone.
3. G-spot orgasm: an intense, spreading, pleasurable sensation, like being stretched open from the inside.
Many girls describe it as:
“It was pressed to a point inside, almost to the point of being stretched open, but it felt incredibly comfortable.”
It may be accompanied by a large amount of bodily fluid (not everyone will experience this).
It is also most likely to “overlap” with clitoral orgasm.
4. Hybrid orgasm: The “Ultimate Experience” Through Three-System Interaction
I know many girls are curious about “mixed orgasms”.
Actually, it’s not that it’s more difficult, it just requires a better understanding of your own body.
Strategy:
- Use light touch to find sensitive spots
- External + Internal Synchronous Stimulation
- Maintain a steady pace and don’t rush.
- Fine-tuning the angle works far better than speeding up.
When the clitoris acts as the “initiator,” the vagina provides the rhythm, and the G-spot provides the depth, a super strong wave is created.
Your body is a system that can be continuously upgraded.
What I truly want to tell you is—
There is no most powerful way to have an orgasm, only the way that suits you best.
Your body is your own personal laboratory:
You can explore slowly, or you can experiment openly, but the most important thing is:
Find the right combination of three systems for you.
The next time you explore pleasure,
You will be clearer, more confident, and enjoy it more.
Instead of blindly “trying things out”.
Each experience becomes fuller, smoother, and more enjoyable.