To be honest, the topic of “anal play” still carries a certain mystique for many people. Whether it’s chatting, exploring new ways to play, or suggesting to a partner that they want to try something different, most people instantly go quiet and pretend they have no interest.
But the reality is—people are just curious.
Moreover, more and more adults have begun to openly explore the new pleasures that anal play can bring.
As sexual attitudes become more open and the quality of sex toys becomes more sophisticated, anal toys are no longer something that “only exists in certain circles,” but are gradually making their way onto the bedroom lists of ordinary couples, and even becoming a very natural choice to “enhance intimacy.”
So today, let’s clarify “this matter” completely:
What are anal toys? What types are there? How can they be used safely? And how can one overcome feelings of shyness about them?
After reading this, you will understand your body better and be more willing to admit that happiness is something worth taking seriously.
What are anal toys? Why are they so popular now?
Anal toys are sex toys specifically designed to stimulate the anal area. Previously, they had a niche audience, but now, trying anal stimulation is no longer stigmatized or considered a “forbidden zone.”
Why did it start to become popular?
Dense nerve endings → High potential for pleasure
- Regardless of gender, the anus has a large number of nerve endings, and stimulation of the anus can produce a pleasure that is completely different from traditional methods.
Changing social attitudes → More people are willing to openly explore their bodies
- People are becoming more accepting of diverse ways to enjoy themselves and are more willing to prioritize their own comfort.
Strong synergistic pleasure → May produce additional stimulation for both men and women.
- For women: May enhance G-spot or clitoral sensations
- For men: Prostate (P-spot) stimulation can produce a deep, full-body orgasm.
Market data even shows:
- In recent years, sales of anal toys in Europe and the U.S. have steadily increased, and sales on domestic e-commerce platforms have also grown annually.
This is not accidental; it is a trend.
What are some common anal toys? There are more than just the ones you might think of.
1. Butt plug
Anal plugs are considered “entry-level” options, mostly shaped like teardrops or cones with a non-slip base at the bottom. They are designed to stay in place once inserted, preventing them from slipping too far in or falling out. They are typically made of silicone, stainless steel, or glass, and come in a variety of sizes and shapes—Some even vibrate, light up, or feature playful designs like “fox tails” or “rabbit tails.”
Suitable: This is suitable for beginners, those who want to experience the feeling of being “filled,” or couples looking to upgrade their foreplay.
2. Anal beads
Anal beads are somewhat like a beaded necklace, usually consisting of several small balls strung together in progressively larger increments. The technique involves slow insertion, followed by slow withdrawal as pleasure builds. Each bead provides a different sensation upon insertion and withdrawal. Legend has it that “removing the anal bead during orgasm” can double the pleasure (of course, this should be done safely and slowly).
Suitable: Suitable for those who enjoy rhythmic stimulation and the pleasure of “gradual buildup.”
3. Prostate Massager (P-spot Massager)
These “high-tech” devices, specifically designed for men, typically feature a hooked shape that precisely targets the prostate (P-spot). Some are vibrating, while others can be remotely controlled. Research suggests that prostate orgasms are more intense than regular ejaculation, causing a tingling sensation throughout the body and an almost out-of-body feeling!
Suitable: Men with some anal sex experience who want to experience more intense pleasure.
4. Anal vibrating toys (vibrator/vibrating egg)
Resembling a mini massager in appearance, it vibrates upon insertion, and some even feature variable frequency and remote control capabilities. It can be used alone or paired with vaginal toys for a “dual stimulation” experience, providing multiple layers of stimulation.
Suitable: People who seek diverse ways to play and enjoy interactive technology.
5. Anal Training Kit
Designed specifically for beginners, this set includes multiple sizes from small to large, allowing gradual adaptation and training. Suitable for those with expansion needs or those preparing to experience larger sizes (such as anal sex).
Suitable: Use it from beginner to advanced level.
6. Other extended categories
For example, there are anal sprays, lubricants, “animal ear cosplay props” with tails, and even smart anal toys with “remote control” functions, catering to different scenarios and fantasies. Modern technology has brought anal play to new heights!
How to use anal toys safely? These points must be remembered.
Despite the wide variety of anal toys available, safety and health should always be the top priority. Be sure to keep these “avoid pitfalls” guide in mind:
1. Specialized lubricant is essential.
Since the anus doesn’t have its own lubrication, you must use a large amount of water-based lubricant (oil-based lubricants can easily damage silicone products). Insufficient lubrication can easily cause injury, with serious consequences!
2. The choice of materials is important.
Prioritize materials that are safe and easy to clean, such as medical-grade silicone, stainless steel, and glass. Never choose inferior plastics or adhesives just because they are cheap.
3. Gradual sizing
Toys come in all sizes, so beginners are advised to start with the smallest one and gradually get used to it. Start slow to avoid discomfort or pain.
4. A non-slip base is very important.
Make sure to buy products with “anti-slip base/anti-slip ring” to prevent them from “slipping in” and getting stuck—Getting stuck toys removed in hospitals is no joke.
5. Clean before playing, disinfect after playing
Wash your hands and toys thoroughly before insertion into the anus, and disinfect them thoroughly after use—hygiene is not something to be taken lightly.
6. Stop immediately if you feel unwell.
If you experience pain, bleeding, or severe discomfort, stop immediately and seek medical attention as soon as possible if the condition is serious.
Psychological aspect: Don’t let shyness hinder your bodily freedom
Many people don’t lack the desire to try, but rather the courage to admit, “I want to try.”
The fact is:
Anal pleasure has nothing to do with sexual orientation or gender.
It’s just a form of physical pleasure, without any label.
One netizen said, “I was both nervous and excited when I first tried anal plugs, but in the end I found that it wasn’t a big deal.” — Just like trying a new position for the first time or buying an adult toy for the first time, Once you take that step, you can understand your body and desires more freely.
Moreover, more and more couples are using anal toys as a way to “spice up their relationship,” exploring new experiences and adding a sense of ritual to their sex life, making it more intimate and enjoyable. You see, happiness is actually hidden in that moment of daring to try!
Explore boldly, but always remain rational and respectful.
The anus is neither a forbidden zone nor a myth.
It’s just another door to the body — When used correctly, it can bring new pleasure and deeper intimacy.
Remember these three unchanging principles:
- Sufficient lubrication
- Thorough disinfection
- Proceed step by step
May your exploration of your body allow you to enjoy pleasure while maintaining respect, communication, and safety.
After all, the greatest freedom an adult can have is knowing what they want and having the ability to get it safely.